Writing a eulogy can leave you with crumpled drafts, a hurting heart, and empty head. How is one meant to the capture the life of an individual in a handful of heartfelt words and sentences?
That’s why we’re proud to now offer eulogy writing as part of our services, through our partnership with Tell Your Story.
Windsor Funerals is an Auckland-based funeral home that prioritises people over profit and care over commerce. Our vision is simple yet powerful. We provide affordable, meaningful, and profoundly personal funeral services that genuinely support families in their time of need. We desire to make every step of the process easy for our families – including eulogies.
Meet Heather, Windsor Funerals eulogy writing partner
Owner of Tell Your Story, a memorial and autobiography writing service, Heather works directly with clients to capture life stories and craft meaningful eulogies.
Heather is no stranger to grief and knows the gravity of writing a eulogy for someone she loves.
“My father died quite suddenly, and I remember writing his eulogy in the brain fog of grief,” she shares.
He left behind a collection of written work, including a family tree, family history, and a complete autobiography.
“Even though I am a writer and we had this treasure trove of information, nothing prepares you for needing to write and share a eulogy for someone you love. I can support others through that process.”
Eulogy Writing Service and Process
A eulogy is the record of somebody’s life. Unlike a personal tribute given by a loved one, a eulogy honours the life story of the deceased: where they started, where they ended up and what they have accomplished.
Whether you are writing your own personal eulogy as you pre-plan your own funeral or writing on behalf of someone else, Heather’s 100% confidential eulogy writing process is both personal and straightforward.
“First, we talk about the personality you are writing about. Together, we determine the feeling we want to convey, whether we want it to be humorous or serious. Sentimental or straightforward.”
From there, Heather and her clients continue to talk about the individual and their life story.
“Ultimately, my clients are writing the eulogy. It’s my job to listen, capture their words, phrases, and the person they are speaking about through my guided questions, their stories, and descriptions,” Heather says. “ I simply put the words to paper and organise them accordingly.”
People often find it to be a helpful, almost therapeutic process.
People always say to me, “ I don’t think I have much to talk about,” but soon memories come flooding back. What they find to be boring and uneventful is often actually fascinating and can be crafted into a beautiful story.”
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“My father’s collection of stories is like gold to me, and it has created a meaningful connection with him long after he is gone. I want to offer similar opportunities to others,” says Heather.
Like the Windsor Funerals team, Heather holds the process sacred and is immensely honoured to be able to play a small part in your story.
Contact Windsor Funeral team if you would like to get in touch with Heather today!
Windsor Funerals provides compassionate, personalised, affordable funeral options in Auckland.
Our team works closely with each family to ensure that every detail aligns with their values, budget, and vision for a meaningful farewell. We aim to help families make decisions that resonate with their loved ones’ lives and legacies. Contact our Windsor Funerals team today for more information or to discuss your options. We’re here to support you every step of the way.